7R. Making Out & Kissing

Making Out – More than Just Foreplay - Red Day Method

A tried and true way to still engage in sexual activity without the risk of penetration is making out or heavy petting. Although we all love the visceral, carnal act of penis-to-vagina (PtoV) penetration, sometimes elongated foreplay is even sexier.

Persian couple
Persian couple

Studies show that passionate kissing and making out are integral to creating true intimacy. Women often report that hot and heavy 'dry humping' alone can be very exciting.

Non-penis-to-vagina sexual activities are commonly seen as 'foreplay'. Society designates them as stepping-stone activities to prepare for the main event of penis/vagina penetration.

A female complaint about foreplay is that it finishes too quickly before penetrative sex. This can easily be fixed with more attention to enjoying the journey rather than going for the usual goal of penetration.

Making out does not have to lead to penetrative lovemaking. Foreplay activities like dry humping can lead to orgasm while still wearing clothes. Make it into a game. Wear sexy underwear.

Passionate Kissing in Ancient Pompeii
Passionate Kissing in Ancient Pompeii

Emphasize foreplay as a complete sexual activity. This inevitably makes traditional penetration more meaningful when it does happen.

Behave like stereotypical young people who want to 'do it' but cannot because penetrative sex at their age has huge potential consequences.

Young adults will feverishly and hungrily kiss and hump each other, often to the point of orgasm.

Although it may seem juvenile, going back to the beginning might be exactly what is needed to inflame sensuality in older adults.

Making Out - Image Courtesy of PLVTOSUN ART
Making Out - Image Courtesy of PLVTOSUN ART

A couple's home is often the only place where they can make love. One advantage of making out is that it is very versatile. It can be done in a variety of places. This allows for increased spontaneity within a relationship/partnership. An easy way to instill energy and passion in making out is to do it elsewhere than the home.

When outside the house, PDA or public displays of affection, are often frowned upon in most societies. However, PDA in private/public settings such as at a private spot in a park, or at night in your car can be exciting. It is fun to engage in pleasurable 'clothes on' activities that are a bit forbidden.

Passionate Kissing

Kissing is one of the most erotic acts. When done well it simulates the act of sex. It can sometimes be even more erotic and passionate.

We suggest deep tongue kissing because it mimics sex — wet, suckling, and licking, along with sounds and caresses, can get the juices of sexual desire flowing. Increased saliva flow is associated with higher arousal, which makes sense — the wetter, the better.

Experimentation within making out can also be valuable and ensure that you will never get tired of it.

Neck kissing is highly enjoyable for both partners, but especially for women. The tissue around the ear and neck is very sensitive and awakens arousal in other areas of the body.

Keeping these ideas in mind, you can change your sexual routine in the bedroom, or wherever you please. Making out and kissing can be done almost anywhere. They are guaranteed methods of birth control that can satisfy your sexual desires.